How To Catch A Cheating Lover » Ways http://how-to-catch-cheating.com Find out the truth about a cheating husband, cheating wife, cheating boyfriend or girlfriend... Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:19:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 en hourly 1 Five ways to invest in your marriage. http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/04/30/five-ways-to-invest-in-your-marriage/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/04/30/five-ways-to-invest-in-your-marriage/#comments Fri, 30 Apr 2010 22:01:24 +0000 Tiffany Powers http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/04/30/five-ways-to-invest-in-your-marriage/
Nobody plans for it to happen, but life can get pretty messy. Trouble with our relationships harmful habits feeling far from God we look back and wonder, How did I end up here? Starting down that path is easier than you might think, unless you know what to look for.

]]> http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/04/30/five-ways-to-invest-in-your-marriage/feed/ 0 Learn 3 Ways How To Get Your Ex Back, Even if You’ve Cheated http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/02/27/learn-3-ways-how-to-get-your-ex-back-even-if-youve-cheated/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/02/27/learn-3-ways-how-to-get-your-ex-back-even-if-youve-cheated/#comments Sat, 27 Feb 2010 18:21:36 +0000 Tiffany Powers
www.getbackwithyourex.info Learn how to get your ex back. Frank tells his story and how he learned how to get your ex boyfriend back or get your ex girlfriend back.

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]]> http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/02/27/learn-3-ways-how-to-get-your-ex-back-even-if-youve-cheated/feed/ 0 12 ways to spot a STALKER http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/02/25/12-ways-to-spot-a-stalker/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/02/25/12-ways-to-spot-a-stalker/#comments Thu, 25 Feb 2010 19:25:35 +0000 Tiffany Powers
Many requested relationship advice from me and being that I do whatever you girls want..here it is =) ! And ps…Never let anyone treat you less than what you’re worth. If you do, you will NEVER be treated appropriately. here are 12 ways to spot a stalker. this is a response video to Andreaschoice

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]]> http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/02/25/12-ways-to-spot-a-stalker/feed/ 0 Ways to Catch a Cheating Husband- Stop Him Dead in His Tracks http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/23/ways-to-catch-a-cheating-husband-stop-him-dead-in-his-tracks/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/23/ways-to-catch-a-cheating-husband-stop-him-dead-in-his-tracks/#comments Sun, 24 Jan 2010 05:17:25 +0000 Tiffany Powers

You want to catch your husband cheating. He already led you to believe that he’s cheating by his actions. Things just aren’t adding up and you know he’s lying to you. So, what I’m going to do is share some ways to catch a cheating husband.

First, before I dive into how to catch your cheating husband, I’d like to point out that you may already have some proof that he’s cheated on you. You may have found lipstick on his clothes, phone numbers in his pockets, or seen his unusual phone activities.

Although these are signs of a cheater, they won’t hold up in court. And even more, he will deny it and tell you that you’re insecure. So, you have to get concrete proof that your husband is cheating on you.

There’s concrete proof of your husband cheating on you by looking at his credit card statements or using spy software to track his online activities. Your husband probably has different email accounts that you don’t know about which let’s him talk to the woman he’s seeing.

Also, your husband is probably on facebook and myspace looking to hook up with women or talking to the one woman he’s having an affair with. Using the spy software is completely legal and will help you stop him dead in his tracks.

Even if you know for a fact your husband is cheating on you, unless you have concrete proof, it won’t hold up in court. So, using the software will allow you to have concrete proof, which will give you power in court. And this is important when it comes down to child custody.

Now that you know how to catch a cheating husband, do something about it. You need to get the spy software that’s guaranteed to help you.

To learn how to find concrete proof of your spouse cheating, go to http://www.catch–your–cheating-spouse.blogspot.com

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]]> http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/23/ways-to-catch-a-cheating-husband-stop-him-dead-in-his-tracks/feed/ 0 Men and Their Cheating Ways http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/23/men-and-their-cheating-ways/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/23/men-and-their-cheating-ways/#comments Sat, 23 Jan 2010 21:05:06 +0000 Tiffany Powers Cheating men:

It is by nature that most men have a woman on the side even though they might have a main girl. Then you have the faithful ones who are very loyal to their girl and will do everything with all honesty without a doubt. They’ll tell the truth without a problem no matter what the case may be and with those cheating men out in this world living a complete lie will lie about anything, even the petty little things. Some men get caught and some don’t. Although, we women find it ironic why some men don’t get caught while doing their dirt. But did you know that when some men cheat and hiding all evidence, they get caught every time somehow, someway. But the truth in the matter is when women decide that they want to cheat, we don’t get caught! why? for the simple fact that it’s already planned for payback just for the simple fact that we know what we’re doing protecting ourselves from ever getting caught from doing dirt that we also do just because we feel that men are dogs and they need a dose of their own medicine. And when men cheat they normally don’t think before acting. But not all men are dogs, it’s just the rotten ones that spoil it for the rest of the good ones that’s out there.

Survey says: 1 out of 10 men cheat!

Know this: A good man is hard to find, but when we do find the good ones, we have to really hold on to them so they won’t slip away even if that man has a flaw about him that annoys you in the worst way. Ladies we must learn to deal with this it can’t be that bad.

Word from the wise:

If you see a really hot guy and he seems so perfect, well most likely he’s a cheater to the bone because in all actuality there is no perfect man you just have to deal with some annoying habits and hope that he’s not a cheater.

Although when men are in relationships they say that the reasons why they cheat are:

-Lack of attention: Not paying enough attention.

-Too much attention:Suffocating him/Suffocating your man and not letting him breathe.

-Boredom: No excitement, less aroused

- Don’t feel attracted anymore/interests lying elsewhere.

- Insecurity: when a woman is so insecure where it drives a man crazy

From a woman’s perspective:

We don’t condone cheaters. We feel that once a man cheats, he’ll always cheat. We just don’t trust those cheating men that’s out there. However, there is hope and some men do change their cheating ways and some end up doing the same things over and over. If a woman loves a man she’ll stay with him cheating or no cheating. Now we ladies know that it’s all over when a man cheats and we may not be able to trust the man again and it’s not easy leaving a man when you’ve been through so much together.

Then you have the ones who can’t help but cheating constantly on their loved ones and it’s only a matter of time when those cheaters get busted. But what those cheaters don’t know is lying to your partner, is like lying to yourself.

Will the cheating ever stop, or will it go on and on like a cycle!!!

Writer/newly published author

A public relations specialist and a new writer of urban tales and fiction. My first novel will be out in the summer of 2008.

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]]> http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/23/men-and-their-cheating-ways/feed/ 0 Cheating Boyfriend – Ways to Tell If Your Boyfriend Is A Cheater http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/18/cheating-boyfriend-ways-to-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-a-cheater/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/18/cheating-boyfriend-ways-to-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-a-cheater/#comments Mon, 18 Jan 2010 09:18:39 +0000 Tiffany Powers http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/18/cheating-boyfriend-ways-to-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-a-cheater/ Here are some quick sure fire ways to tell if you have a cheating boyfriend on your hands ladies!

1) Lack of interest in you for an extended period of time is the first warning sign. This is his way of saying I am just not that into you anymore, or the way he used to be. This could signal his bad intentions, maybe he is talking to someone else? This is the first sign of a boyfriend Cheating, or being a potential cheater! Time to dig deeper ladies. Keep a watchful eye on his habits!

2) He Has a sudden change in his routine. Maybe he is coming home from work later than usual, with the not so original excuse sorry honey I had to work overtime. Even though his paycheck stays the same! A sudden new found interest in his appearance, is he taking a little better care of himself than usual? New clothes, New high priced Cologne? More interested in working out? Even though he hasn’t went to the gym since Reagan was president, than spending quality time with you? This could signal a cheating boyfriend Ladies. Watch Out!

3) Online a lot, is your boyfriend discreetly on the computer? Usually a potential cheating boyfriend, will spend his time online when your not around, or sleeping. Does this sound familiar ladies? Or he quickly logs off when your around, what doesn’t he want you too see? What is he hiding? This could definitely be a sign, that you have a potential cheating boyfriend on your hands ladies! Once again watch out ladies!

If you experience any of these tell tale signs pay close attention to him. Be prepared for the worse, but hope for the best. Catch a cheating boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife? What can really help you find out once and for all? Be your own private detective, catch that cheater now, before its too late! Good luck on your quest to find out the truth.

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]]> http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/18/cheating-boyfriend-ways-to-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-a-cheater/feed/ 0 Cheating Boyfriend Test: Easy Ways to Test if Your Boyfriend is Cheating http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/04/cheating-boyfriend-test-easy-ways-to-test-if-your-boyfriend-is-cheating/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/04/cheating-boyfriend-test-easy-ways-to-test-if-your-boyfriend-is-cheating/#comments Mon, 04 Jan 2010 11:06:23 +0000 Tiffany Powers http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/04/cheating-boyfriend-test-easy-ways-to-test-if-your-boyfriend-is-cheating/ Have you ever been cheated by your boyfriend? Or do you suspect him to be fooling around with someone else? If your answer is yes, then listen closely. There’s one way you can catch him and put him in his proper place, and that is by subjecting him to the cheating boyfriend test.

While a cheating boyfriend is something you don’t want to have in common with other girls, it also means that guys like him have not really changed their styles either. The cheating boyfriend test encompasses some of their old tricks, which you can use to catch them.

<b>Confront Your Girlfriends</b>

This is at the top of every cheating boyfriend test primarily because it happens more often than not. A lot of guys who have a habit of cheating on their partners often make a move on the “girlfriends.”

Whether it’s an invitation to spend the night at his place or an embrace that’s not entirely friendly, these guys know no boundaries. And as your friend, the girl would probably choose to keep the experience a secret for your own consideration.

Just to make sure you’re not the last person to find out about it, ask some of your closest girlfriends now. Even if they haven’t been targeted by your guy, they might know someone who has.

<b>Unidentified Numbers</b>

Mobile phones are today’s prime choice for communication. They are also the gadgets which are number one on the cheating boyfriend test’s “weapon of choice” category.

If your guy suddenly starts receiving calls from unidentified numbers, it’s time to do a little investigation. Be even more alert if your guy doesn’t tell you who he’s speaking with, or if he often leaves the room to answer his calls.

If you have the opportunity, try checking his phone for the number he often calls or answers. If it’s an unidentified number, you have the choice to find out who the owner of that number is and why your guy seems to call it more often than your own mobile phone.

These are only some of the tricks which are included in the cheating boyfriend test. They have been tried and tested over time. However, it’s also not such a good idea to jump to conclusions. Try to find out what other reasons there could be for such suspicious behavior and then make your decision.

Discover how to detect a cheating person by reading lying body language. Ensure a rock-solid cheat-proof marriage or relationship by using ethical mind control techniques and the proven methods at http://www.20daypersuasion.com/cheatproof-marriage.htm

]]> http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/04/cheating-boyfriend-test-easy-ways-to-test-if-your-boyfriend-is-cheating/feed/ 0 9 Ways to Tell if a Girl Will Cheat on You http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/01/9-ways-to-tell-if-a-girl-will-cheat-on-you/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/01/9-ways-to-tell-if-a-girl-will-cheat-on-you/#comments Fri, 01 Jan 2010 19:42:03 +0000 Tiffany Powers http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/01/9-ways-to-tell-if-a-girl-will-cheat-on-you/ Before I dive right into this article, I should warn you. What you are about to read is a heavy combination of personal experience, astute observation, and unrelenting research. This list was more or less something of a personal checklist of mine to use when evaluating a potential new female prospect in my life and it has been extremely good and accurate for my friends and I. What I am trying to say is that if you read this, and notice that your girlfriend or wife rates unfavorably in any category, you might start developing a case of paranoia that would ultimately accelerate the end of your relationship. Or worse yet, actually cause the relationship fail when she is just a little weak in one or two categories.

The way to use this list is as follows: Go through and give each section a score of 1 to 10, 1 being if she is really weak in the category, 10 being if she is really strong in the category. At the end add up your score—anything higher than a 72 and you should feel particularly safe that your girl won’t cheat on you. 54-72 means that she could be thinking about it but probably will not unless the circumstances are extreme, and anything lower than that probably means you have to be careful and evaluate your situation. Anything below a 27 and she has probably already cheated on you a few times. Without further ado, here are the 9 Ways to Tell if A Girl Will Cheat on You. You’ve been warned

9. How Flirty is She?

A lot of women like to flirt. It’s just something that women do—especially if they’re single. It’s how they communicate with men that they find interesting or attractive in hopes of fixing the problem of being single (Even if its only for one night). The problem comes when there is a lot of what girls have come to call “innocent flirting” going on with other guys when she’s out and you can observe it.

Now before we go flipping the jealously switch and being super alert, remember that there is a very clear line and a world of difference between being social and being flirty. You must be very careful not to confuse the two. Let’s say you are at a party with your girlfriend, for example. If she is just being social, she’s probably out talking to lots of people, not being mean or rude to anyone (including guys that hit on her) and in general just meeting people and mingling. Whether she talks to mostly guys or mostly girls, there is nothing wrong with this and over reacting to having an attractive girlfriend who is also a socialite will get you the asshole tag and probably make her want to leave you behind when she goes out or will flat out break up with you.

The things you should look for is if she zero’s in on one guy, allows herself to get isolated by the guy (or initiates the isolation herself), she is constantly getting closer and touching in a full frontal manner (as opposed to from the sides). There are many more signs of over-flirting that can take place that I won’t list here, but whenever you see it happening just ask yourself the following questions:

-Is she like that with most people? (Depending on culture and background, some girls really are just touchy feely. Judge it against her baseline behavior socially)
-If someone came by would it look like those two are connecting on a level deeper than friendship (a sense of objectiveness is incredibly important so you don’t see things through a cloud of jealously)
-If she’s not like that with most people, how much is she touching him? (Above all things else, in bar or at a party or any other social venture where you can observe the flirting, this is usually the key to tell how far she might let the flirting go in any situation)

 

8. She has very little will power

This is a dead give away to the potential your girlfriend has for cheating on you. The worst part is that no matter how much she actually loves you or cares about you, if she has very little power she is going to eventually cheat on you. She may probably feel bad about it to, but people who get cheated on don’t really seem to have great sympathy for someone who says they feel bad after doing something that probably felt great.

She may have an amazing heart, but if her mental strength is low in certain situations she’ll just give in to any guys advances. It’s like a drug addict or a fat person. They may not want to use the drug or over eat because they know what it’s doing to them, but they have not developed the will power to resist urges. All it takes is some guy (usually an ex-lover or a “friend”) rubbing them the right way and they give in to their body and urges just like that despite what they may feel afterwards.

You can tell how weak her will power is by asking yourself these simple questions:

How in shape is she? /How well does she eat? (Women with high levels of will power and discipline tend to take good care of themselves.)

Does she drink or smoke heavy or do drugs? (It’s been proven that there is a direct correlation between heavy smokers/drinkers, drug addicts and people with low self-discipline. This also applies to any addictive behavior)

How together is her life? (Obviously if her life is a mess, chances are other parts of her personality are a mess as well)

Has she accomplished her goals? /Does she stick to goals? (People who give in to difficulties in accomplishing things also give into difficult maintaining things…like relationships)

Does she do things she says she will? (Much like the rest of the signs, this one directly correlates with her ability to do something that she says she going to do.)

7. She is very naïve/gullible

Weak will power means that your women will ultimately succumb to whatever urges take hold of her at the moment, even if goes against what is best for her. The previous trait dealt with how she responds to external pressures, while this particular trait deals with how easily her perception can be altered and manipulated. It seems like weak will, but weak will power is a question of mental strength, while this a question of mental awareness. Lack of either one is no good.

I’ve met girls that work out everyday, are high performers in their career and incredibly successful. Obviously women with high will power. But some of them are so ditzy that they can’t tell when a man is hitting on them or spitting bullshit game on them. If someone told them the guy talking to her was Brad Pitt she might believe it. If you believe your woman has a weak mental awareness and is very naïve about the world, ask yourself the following questions:

Is she easy to play jokes on? (A sense of humor is awesome, but falling for practical joke after practical joke indicates a weak ability to catch on to the reality of a situation)

Is she clueless to when guys are hitting on her? (This, in of itself might make you a little jealous and is probably nothing really to worry about. However, combined with weak will power, she might find herself in many situations where she just gives in because doesn’t know better)

6. Her belief structure

When I talk about her belief structure, I’m not talking about whether she is Christian or Mormon or anything like that. Though these things certainly can go a long way in determining her likeliness to cheat on you, we are more interested in her internal belief set about things that are permissible in relationships.

Be wary of any girl that says it’s ok to go on dates with other people, kiss other people, cuddle with other people of the opposite sex, gives her numbers in bars, etc. While it may seem like at first things like this incredible and gives you lots of freedom, but if you are like most guys you’ll eventually wonder if she is only staying at those self imposed borders. Chances are she is not because boundaries thin the further they go. For example, a person who has never committed a crime will have a hard time doing armed robbery. But someone who has done armed robbery probably won’t have to make much of a jump to kill someone.

If your woman thinks it’s cool to give her number, cuddle with guys, or even go out on dates, then its not going to be that big of a stretch for her to take it to the next level. The same goes with lying to you because a weird sort of internal justification goes on with this type of thinking. If it wasn’t easy enough to make the jump to full blown cheating on you with this type of flimsy relationship structure, it will be when she begins to tell herself that you probably are doing the same thing. But in defense of your woman of your woman, if you get into a relationship seriously with a women who has this type of logic then you probably are asking to be cheated on. If you think your woman has a weak belief structure, ask yourself the following questions:

-Does she have different ideas about how relationships should go? (Once again, not a crime, but be prepared if she expects one thing from you but does something entirely different herself.)

-Does she do things blatantly in front of you like give out her number of flirt with guys in a suggestive manner? (If she makes no attempts to hide such behavior, then she really doesn’t see the harm and has a higher threshold for what’s acceptable than you do.)

-Is her logic or perspective on things “twisted” or “fuzzy”?(Use your instinct to figure out if certain things she thinks or believes is a severely out of tune with the rest of the world.)

5. Her Style of Love

Sadly guys, there isn’t much you can do about this one but see it coming and get out of the way. Some women (just like some men, to remain as fair as I can) just love other person in differently. While some girls fall madly in love and head over hills, others take a while to warm up. Then there are those that never feel quite comfortable in commitment. These are the ones that have probably told you straight up that they are commitment phobic or can go days without talking to you and not miss you a bit. It boils down to how much time and energy she has invested and is willing to invest. The less she is willing to invest into the commitment, the less it will ultimately mean to her even if she says that she loves you. How can you tell if she’s invested in the relationship?

Does she treat the relationship like a sporting contest? (Constantly treating things like a system of checks and balances signifies fear of giving more than you’ll get, and is the “safe” strategy for getting involved with someone)

Has the relationship stayed at the same transitory period for an extended period of time? (In any relationship, after a certain amount of time things should escalate naturally unless there is non-compatibility or an effort to stick it one place?)

Does she keep close contact with ex lovers and always seem to be meeting new guys? (Either of these behaviors signifies an inability to leave behind things half finished, and invest energy into starting something new)

4. She Doesn’t Respect You

Sadly enough, I’ve seen many guys deal with their girls or wives being incredibly disrespectful to them. Even more sadly, most times they just write it off as them being frustrated or angry. There is a clear and definite line between anger and disrespect. Before I go further in explaining exactly what that line is, I must say that do not want you to avoid dealing with things with your girlfriend or wife because you are afraid of making her angry. If you currently do have this method of dealing with things, then stop immediately as it ironically only leads her to losing respect for you anyway.

So what is exactly the difference between her being angry towards you and her being disrespectful? The basic difference lies in how she deals with things that you do, versus things that are a part of you. For example, she disagrees with your opinions or your lifestyle choices she might get angry, but she won’t belittle you in any type of way. Disrespect, on the other hand is often full of subtle and overt attacks on your character, intelligence and life direction.

Also, respect can fluctuate over time. One part of her respecting you is her natural temperament towards you, but another part is how much respect you inspire her to give to you. Respect, like all things worth having, is earned. Just because you’re sleeping with her, or she says she loves you, doesn’t mean it’s a guarantee. To see how much your woman respects you, ask yourself the following questions:

-Does she do what she wants regardless of your opinion about it? (She is giving your existence and commitment in the relationship no weight or consideration what so ever.)

-Does she regularly lash out at you regardless of your feelings?

-Are you consistent, driven and focused in your life, accomplishing things and being a man that actually deserves respect? (If you don’t respect yourself, or command respect of others around you, then your woman probably does not respect you either)

3. Her thoughts about Cheating on People

Statistics show90 percent of Americans actually do think cheating on someone in a relationship is wrong, however more than half of women do it at some point or another. This means that there are a good number of women out there who are going to cheat regardless. There is just nothing you can do about it. If you want a fling, or you want to have some affairs on the side yourself, then perhaps this is the type of woman you want, but I’m assuming that you want a woman that is going to remain faithful to you unless you give her a reason not to.

Most girls, if they like you, will not come right out and tell you that she thinks its okay to cheat on their boyfriends because most times they actually have not even come to the realization within themselves that they find it ok. A lot of girls cheat because they think that guys are going to cheat on them anyway, so they just do it. There are lots of crazy things that a person can think, but you cannot ever expect them to ever tell you if they are cheating on you or they think its ok. Asking that question is a waste of time unless you are searching for emotional responses and body language clues. For the most part, this is just one of those things you’ll just have to trust your instinct on, but you will get a few clues. Ask yourself the following questions:

-Has she cheated on someone before? (Many times you will not know the answer to this, but if you are lucky enough to be privy to that knowledge, consider it the single most important indicator that she’ll cheat on you, regardless of what her reasons for cheating on that guy before you were.)

-Do her friends cheat? (We often have friends that are of similar morals. If you know she has lots of friends that cheat on their boyfriends, then there is a good chance that she will to.)

-She ever asks you the question “Is it cheating if…?” (If that ever comes up, she’s probably already cheated on you. The basic definition of cheating on your partner should be whether you would feel comfortable if they did that to you or in front of you. Everyone intuitively knows that so asking that question means she’s already done something, or is thinking about something that she knows is considered cheating in a relationship by most.)

2. Her levels of self-confidence

The final characteristic deals with you (the man) and not so much her anymore. When it comes to assessing the likelihood of her cheating on you, this is single most important characteristic. If she is insecure or lacks self-confidence it can:

-Make her mind weak and easily swayed
-Can make her treat you with little respect
-Give her a cynical disposition about the world that makes her think she cheat so she is never hurt
-Make her constantly need to gain approval from other men by flirting with them constantly (and will lead to other things)

Do not underestimate how a girl’s self-confidence can affect her decisions, even when she means for the best. The need for approval is one of the highest drives a human has, and if she is seriously lacking in that department, then she is willing to behave any numbers of ways to make herself feel as if she approved of and attractive. This will spell disaster for your relationship, and I find that a lack of confidence is the most important indicator of whether she’ll cheat on you in both the short and long term. And the worst part is despite what we think, there is nothing you can to boost her self-confidence although it appears that way. The Void Cheater is a perfect example of what a lack of self-confidence can do to a woman in a relationship. Think your girlfriend’s or wife’s self confidence is an issue? Ask yourself the following the questions:

How happy does she seem? (Confidence in oneself self and place in the world correlates to happiness because of lack of worry)

How many decisions does she make in her everyday life? (These range from the subtle everyday ones, to the larger ones. The more decisions a person is used to making, the more confident they become. Lack of control, lack of decision making will lead her to be less confident)

Why does she dress a certain way? (It’s not so important what she wears as why she does. Some girls like to dress revealing, others dress conservative. If she is remarkably uncomfortable so dresses down to hide her body, or dresses revealing to get constant approval and attention, then you might have a problem on your hands. )

1. How much value do you have to her as a man?

This last trait I consider to be the most important because it’s one that you can control. Her confidence levels, her belief structure, how flirty she is or any of the things I have previously mentioned you cannot influence. However, you can control your life, how you live it, and how you interact with her.

I find that lots of girls will cheat on their boyfriends because they are not satisfying them. That satisfaction is across all spectrums. It could be physically, emotionally, mentally or even socially or financially. Maintaining a relationship is tough work, especially when you consider that you need to make sure you simultaneously are satisfying or engaging your woman on all fronts so she continues to see value in you as her best choice. Sad as it is to realize, once you no longer satisfy her on the levels most important to her, then she will start to think about other people that might but due to emotional investments, probably will not just leave you. She just might find someone to enjoy without your knowledge.

It’s not as complicated as it seems to constantly engage your woman on all the levels she needs to feel satisfied. Just pay attention to what she enjoys and what makes her excited and really show interest in those things. To make sure she constantly sees value in you, make sure you are living with ambition and working to your fullest in whatever field you are in but never neglect her. Many empty beds have been filled in the absence of workaholics. Lastly, treat her well but never let her walk all over you or supplicate her. To make sure that you are living as a man that his woman will value and see no others as better options, ask yourself the following questions:

What do my woman and I share as activities that we really enjoy? (If you guys already have some things that you do together that you really enjoy on a regular basis, then you are probably already engaging her in multiple ways.)

How is your sex life? (This is, surprisingly enough, a big sticking point for some guys because if you’re good or bad you won’t really know it because she probably won’t come right out and tell you that you suck. Instead, rely on being objective about your performance and how well you respond to her.)

What have I done to better my career or myself in the past year? (If you have become stagnant in one of the most important areas of your life, then chances are the rest of your life is suffering as well. You might not be exciting or interesting enough to her anymore, nor do you appear particularly motivated—someone else will take her in the worst way from you.

There you have it. My own experiences and observations have come together in a super long article. Hopefully this will give some guys heads up and help them keep their girlfriends, or swap out and get new ones if the situation is beyond repair.

Edward Latimore writes for and manages Jack of All Cheats. It’s a website that teaches you how to get away with cheating in a relationship, how to catch people cheating in a relationship and offers a variety of advice on the coping with the mental and emotional states that come with having any part of an affair.

]]> http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/01/9-ways-to-tell-if-a-girl-will-cheat-on-you/feed/ 0 Top 10 Ways on How to Catch a Cheating Husband http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/01/top-10-ways-on-how-to-catch-a-cheating-husband/ http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/01/top-10-ways-on-how-to-catch-a-cheating-husband/#comments Fri, 01 Jan 2010 16:51:53 +0000 Tiffany Powers http://how-to-catch-cheating.com/2010/01/01/top-10-ways-on-how-to-catch-a-cheating-husband/ Cheating husbands leave many signs and with a bit of detective work, a wife can catch her husband with sold proof. Many wives make the mistake of hiring an expensive detective or purchasing pricey spy equipment. However, if you are aware of some of the signs of a cheating husband and know your husband’s behavior and habits well, you simply need to follow your gut instinct and employ some of the top 10 ways of how to catch a cheating husband. Most of all, be patient. Give yourself 3-4 weeks of spying time.

Pay close attention to small details and use all your senses so you don’t miss a sign of a cheating husband. Make sure you keep a log book of descriptions, dates and times of all the clues you discover. If you find a clue, make a copy of it if possible. NEVER accuse him of an affair unless you have concrete proof he was cheating because you may have to use this proof in a court of law should you pursue divorce. If you don’t have solid proof, many cheating men lie and make up stories or will call you crazy. Plan your confrontation out in your mind so you will be prepared and armed with facts and evidence. If you have children, make sure they are in a safe, protected place. In addition, don’t become a cheating wife to get revenge. It only causes more problems and will be used against you.

1. Set a trap. Cheating husbands usually cheat when their wife is out of town. Tell your husband that you are leaving for a couple of days and then wait, listen and watch. Place a recording surveillance device in your bedroom or near the phone and then listen. Park in a friend’s car with a hat and sunglasses on and follow his car or wait for someone to come to the house. Keep a camera, binoculars and a cell phone with you. Cheating husbands usually take their affair out for dinner and a rendezvous while you are gone. Give your cheating husband lots of space to make a mistake. Your husband will leave cheating signs unknowingly. Make sure you are “busy” or out of the house a lot while you are investigating. Take a long nap under your bed at lunch or in the evening or place a long recording digital tape recorder which is voice activated under the bed. This wouldn’t work if you have children or a dog.

2. Watch his cell phone. A sign of a cheating husband can be if he protects his cell phone with a password, unexpectedly ask to borrow his cell phone to make an important call. Then make a fake call, pressing as many buttons of his call log as possible to note any strange calls. Go to bathroom with phone if at all possible. Watch whether his cell phone is always turned off when with you or whether he takes unusually long to phone you back. Note the times, dates and length of any suspicious calls. Press the re-dial on the phone or *69. This is an effective way to find out who they’ve been calling.

3. Place a long-recording digital tape recorder under your cheating husband’s car seat every morning and then listen to it when you are alone. Please check the laws in your city or state to make sure it is legal to record someone in your car if they are borrowing it. The same goes for a GPS tracking device which tracks everywhere your husband’s car goes. GPS tracking devices are now made the size of a pack of chewing gum so they are easy to hide.

4. Monitor your husband’s computer usage. Does he use the computer late at night or for an unusual amount of time? Cheating husbands frequently utilize free email services such as hotmail, msn, yahoo, gmail, hushmail, etc… Check his internet web browser history for warning signs. If you suspect your husband is cheating, you can install a keystroke logger which will log every keystroke your husband types, including his passwords. There are many good ones currently for sale.

5. A sign of a cheating husband could be if he is frequenting any dating sites, create a fake profile on-line of someone you think your husband would be attracted to and then start flirting. Many wives have successfully used this technique.

6. Be careful of your cheating husband’s close friends who may cover for him because of loyalty feelings. Even if they don’t approve of your husband’s cheating ways, they may still cover for his cheating by providing an alibi for him.

7. Set booby traps in your house. If you think your cheating husband may be bringing someone into your home while you are traveling or out, set some traps. Put on a clean set of sheets and then place a crumb on the bedspread. Make sure that a dog or cat don’t move it. Then check to see if the crumb is still in the same place after your return.

8. Get your girlfriend’s to help. Sign up a willing acquaintance or girlfriend to hit on your husband at a pre-determined location to see if he will bite. It is helpful if she carries a tape recorder in her purse so you may hear him.

9. Monitor your husband’s driving habits for a month. Watch for increase in gas receipts and monitor the car’s odometer to see if there are extra unexplained miles on the car. Monitor the time he leaves for work and the time he comes home. You should be able to establish a pattern by keeping a calendar and noting the times. If your husband claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify his overtime. If your husband explains a late return home as a result of having to drive out of town on business, yet the mileage on the car indicates less than ten miles driven, you’ll have caught your cheating husband in a lie which may be due to his adultery.

10. Paper signs of a cheating husband can include unexplained receipts, more frequent ATM withdrawals, and unexplained credit card charges. Note any strange dates and times. Is there a restaurant charge when he should have been at work? Check his business deductions if possible.

If you have tried some of the above tips on how to catch a cheating husband and have been unsuccessful, try playing your poker face. Pretend like you know something and give him 24 hours to come clean or else… However, only resort to this after you have tried all other means because if you accuse him, your husband will know you are on to him, deny any wrong doing and cover his cheating tracks better next time.

Stephany Alexander is a relationship expert and CEO/Founder of WomanSavers.com – The World’s Largest Database Rating Men. She holds a degree in Communications and is the author of the book “Sex, Lies and the Internet.”

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